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How does one succeed in life?

12.06.2025 04:35

How does one succeed in life?

Big dreamer but only in his mind.

Example 2: Maybe you want to lose weight.

The truth is: Future YOU is simply YOU, but older and more tired.

Why are there posts saying the T in LGBT should be dropped? With what is happening in the US and beyond against the trans community cause for concern that if this is accepted could it be deemed acceptable to start on the LGB community again?

Example 4: Maybe you want to quit porn for 30 days.

Most people think their 2.0 version will magically manifest and find it easier to do hard things.

Living to your full potential is a goal.

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Losing 20kg is a goal.

Quitting porn for 30 days is a goal.

Example 3: Maybe you want to make more friends.

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Saving $10,000 is a goal.

The money you’ve invested, the tailored plan, and the accountability of the coach make it almost impossible not to succeed.

Cutting off WiFi at home for a month or giving your phone to a distant friend for a month (in exchange for a Nokia or simply nothing) is a system.

What makes you different?

Do not set goals—set systems.

PICK 1 important thing you want to quit or bring into your life in 2025. Think hard about a system that will make it impossible or inevitable.

That's it for today.

What are the types of values?

How can I make it impossible to fall into a specific bad habit (you want to quit)?

Keep in mind that, there is always a system for any problem. You just need to be willing to think hard enough and BE WILLING TO MAKE SACRIFICES.

Like Sam’i, 99% of men treat their future selves like strangers—completely different from who they are right now.

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In 5 years, YOU will still be the one making decisions. And if you keep your current habits, "YOU 2.0" will have big problems.

Opens a business and makes WiFi money.

An average man, let's call him Sam’i (that’s my name):

What is the best way to get my wife to become a hotwife?

How can I make the good habit (you want to start) inevitable?

Can’t control his impulses (women, porn, masturbation, smoking, Netflix, anger, etc.).

“YOU 2.0” is like your future kid. It’s your duty to make decisions for him. It is wiser to marry a nice mom for your kid, not just a beautiful wife for yourself.

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Hangs out with loser friends.

Ask yourself:

First, understand that, effective "change" should be 80% systems and only 20% willpower—not the other way around. Do not joke with that.

What was your first gay male experience?

Losers and winners have the same goals. The difference is their systems.

If you don’t change now, expect tomorrow to be almost exactly the same—or worse.

Porn blockers might help, but they won’t be as effective. And you know nudity isn’t just on Pornhub—it’s everywhere. Don’t joke with fire.

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Example 1: Let’s say you make a monthly income, and you want to save $10,000.

Paying a coach with a detailed plan is a system.

What I need from you?

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Hates going to the gym, eating healthy, or even doing laundry.

Scrolls too much TikTok/YouTube Shorts.

I never raise problems without solutions. So, what to do?

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Buying, a book like Live Intentionally or any other practical self-improvement guide is a system.

Attending 1 specific event every week is a system. Friends will naturally come to you.

Similarly, "YOU 2.0" trusts you to make decisions for him.

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Making more friends is a goal.

Avoids sugar and is very fit.

However, he firmly believes that one day, he will (like by a miracle) be that new, dope version of himself, Sam’i 2.0:

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Having a process that automatically transfers money to your savings account each month is a system.

Does not procrastinate.

Final example: Maybe you want to be a better version of yourself in 2025.

If I only have a fire extinguisher to defend myself against some threat from people, should I spray them for max damage or just hit them with the fire extinguishers?

Has a beautiful wife, cars, etc.

Procrastinates a lot.

Self-disciplined (controls his d*ck, no Netflix, no smoking, etc.).